Learning Communication

More often than not we focus on trivial and miss out the vital. Like Henry David Throureau rightly said:

“There are thousands hacking at the branches of evil to one who is striking at the root”

A truly conditioned mind (conditioned by the society that we live in) always thinks that
a.To learn = To attend training
b.To learn = To spend money
c.Learning is directly proportional to Time we spend in learning

Whether we believe that each one of us are also thinking in this way or not, but it is true for each one of us. This is because we are dealing with a powerful tool which we are supposed to master but we do not do it. Well the consequence of this is that this tool called ‘mind’ deludes us so easily that we fail to notice.

Lets say you want to learn communication skills. Now just look at it. If you are able to just improve tiny bit in every communication opportunity that you get, just because of the sheer number of opportunities you get during the day, you can master it within a span of few months. I am not talking about the frills of communication. I am talking about the soul of communication. So, take this small challenge:

How positive can you be?

1.Say that for next 7 days you will be the most positive person at home?
2.Say that you will not complain even once during the next 7 days at home?
3.Say you will only speak when others are complaining, if you have a solution?
4.Say every time you are about to complain, you will run this audio of you complaining in your mind and check if you also have similar problems that you were to complain about?
5.Say every time you see other’s complaining you will dig deep in their mind and find out if he/she is complaining because of other’s fault or are they themselves unhappy or in a lower state of mind?
6.Say you will watch every person who complains a lot or is complaining at the moment and do an analysis to figure out what is the real reason for this person to complain – is it to hide his/her mistake, is it to distract from something they are guilty about, is it because they do not have a solution, or they cannot think of a solution etc.

The greatest is achieved only by self-discipline. There is no substitute to self-discipline.

Can you take up this project? If yes, can you succeed? Because to start something is anybody’s business, only those who can finish in glory are respected. So, do you have self-respect? Can you start and finish well?

If your mind is saying, you will do it later or maybe this is not the time despite knowing that if you master communication, you master your life, I must tell you, your servant, your mind, has already started playing tricks on you and you will be trapped if you do not fight hard.

Ha ha ha…
Stimulate your mind, discipline your body, nourish your soul… every moment of the day and you have become unstoppable, invincible.

Best Wishes…
Harsh

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~ by Harsh Bhushan on April 4, 2011.

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